Marriage revokes your will
This catches most people off guard: in most Australian states and territories, the moment you say “I do,” your existing will becomes invalid.
🇦🇺 State rules: Marriage revokes wills in NSW, QLD, VIC, SA, WA, and the ACT. In Tasmania and the NT, marriage doesn't automatically revoke a will, but it may still affect how assets are distributed.
This means that even if you had a comprehensive will made last year, getting married can wipe it out entirely.
What happens without a new will
If you die without a valid will after marriage, intestacy rules apply. In most cases:
- Your spouse receives most or all of your estate
- But the formula varies by state
- If you have children from a previous relationship, things get complicated
- Your spouse may have to share with your parents or siblings
This might sound okay, but what if:
- You wanted specific items to go to specific people?
- You had promises to family members?
- Your spouse is already financially secure and you wanted to help others?
The “in contemplation of marriage” exception
There’s one way to keep your will valid through marriage: include a specific clause stating the will is made “in contemplation of marriage” to your named partner.
But this requires:
- Making or updating your will before the wedding
- Naming your specific future spouse
- Proper legal wording
If your pre-wedding will didn’t include this, it’s been revoked.
Time to think as a team
Marriage is the perfect time to:
- Discuss your combined assets — What do you each bring to the marriage?
- Align your wishes — Do you want everything to go to each other?
- Consider mirror wills — Matching wills that leave everything to each other, then to agreed beneficiaries
- Name each other as executors — Or choose someone you both trust
- Update super beneficiaries — Add your spouse to binding nominations
Don’t forget these
Beyond the will itself, marriage should trigger updates to:
- Superannuation beneficiaries — Your spouse is now a tax-effective beneficiary
- Life insurance — Update or increase coverage
- Power of Attorney — Appoint your spouse (or discuss alternatives)
- Emergency contacts — Banks, employers, doctors
💡 Wedding tip: Add "make new wills" to your wedding to-do list, right alongside booking the venue and choosing the cake. It's one of the most practical things you can do for each other.
What about a prenup?
A binding financial agreement (sometimes called a prenup) and a will serve different purposes:
- Financial agreements — Protect assets if the marriage ends in divorce
- Wills — Distribute assets if the marriage ends in death
They work together but don’t replace each other. If you have a financial agreement, your will should align with it.
What to do now
- Check if your state revokes wills upon marriage
- Use our Preparation Checklist to gather what you need
- Make new wills together — within the first month of marriage ideally
- Update super and insurance beneficiaries
- Consider Powers of Attorney for each other
Related: Joint Wills vs Mirror Wills · What happens if I die without a will?